Monday 15 December 2008

Depression OR Mid-life Crisis ?



For some time, I have been feeling low and moody. I find it so hard to get up in the morning to go to work.Friends tell me I am going through a mid-life crisis even though I do not feel it is that. I am 39 years old and wish life would be less stressful, but each day seems such a drag for me.
Don't get me wrong - I am not complaining ! Neither am I the poser. But, some of the symptoms do remind me of a certain stretch of time in my life when I wondered occasionally if I was indeed suffering from depression. Yes, I was in my forties then. The more I thought about it, the worse I feared. I had some information about psychological problems that could possibly plague men in my age group, and I seemed to identify with all the symptoms associated with depression. But, I never had negative thoughts about myself. Neither did I entertain extensive negative thoughts about the future, life, society, or the world in general. Daily activities ? Well, routine, boring and predictable as usual.



I wonder if I am suffering from depression.



Some consultant therapist had said, "People who suffer from depression often end up being dominated by negative thoughts, low moods and, if severe enough, suicidal thoughts".

I had some. Well, not consistently and continuously for a stretch of time. What I feared then was the possible onset of depression. And, if left unchecked could possibly lead to a situation where I could not even search my mind. At least I could still take charge of myself then.

From hindsight, I was feeling depressed but not necessarily suffering from depression. I like it best when an expert attributed such psychological profile as possibly due to what is known as life-transition issues.


Yes, I was definitely grappling with issues such as:

  • how life has been for me so far;
  • wondering if I had achieved anything significant or legendary;
  • whether or not I had lived life to the fullest;
  • taking stocks of my ambitions, achievements and uncompleted tasks;
  • evaluating as to what and how I should move on from then;
  • whether or not I should slow down and enter a more leisurely phase of my life;
  • evaluating as to what could possibly see me actively and usefully engaged throughout the rest of my life; and
  • whether or not a retirement home elsewhere would be better; etc.
Technically, it was a mid-life crisis as it triggers the thought that a significant stretch of my life has gone by and death is eventual and inevitable as I soldier, glide, drag, whatever on the rest of my life.


It is suggested that I take time to reflect on what has been meaningful in my life thus far, and identify blessings in my life.

It is true that whatever struggles, unfulfilled dreams such as my dream house by the sea/ocean and dissatisfactions should not negate or discount what has been affirmative and self-rewarding thus far. I would continue to pursue on how I wish to live for the rest of my life.
I will find time to pursue my interest in music which I regrettably neglected when I switched jobs soon after I bought the Yamaha Electone Organ in 1985.






There must be someone and something to live for, something enthusing and something enticing out there to lead me on!

I have already started on enhancing relationships with people who mean so much to me, but that I could not spend more time with them in the past hectic lifestyle.

I have resumed my strict regimen, and adopt a more healthy lifestyle. Come Sunday and you are most likely to find me recharging at one of Singapore's beaches.

I continue to seek and discern spiritual inspiration and direction to enhance my inner peace and ps psychological/spiritual well-being.

Sunday 14 December 2008

Catholics Do Not Worship Mother Mary


It is not uncommon for others to refer to catholics as those christians who worship Mother Mary.

Years back as a young catholic, I was baffled by questions on the propriety of worshipping Mother Mary. I was not irritated by the misconception at best, or wrong accusation at worst.

On reflection, I am of the opinion that we, as catholics, could not attribute the wrong impression solely on others.

Many of us were at fault. On entering the homes of catholic families, it is common to find the statue of Mother Mary taking centre-stage on the altar.

The icon of Jesus would probably be to the right or left of Mother Mary.

Worst still, there might be none at all.

With these in mind , I have discussed with my wife on making the necessary adjustments to the altar arrangement (see picture).

Besides, the portrait of Mother Mary has also been taken down from our main door; and replaced by the all-too-familiar crucifix associated with the catholic faith.

To set the orientation right, catholics DO NOT worship Mother Mary. We pray to Mother Mary to intercede for us in her prayer to the Lord.

Pope Benedict XVI told the pilgrims at the Marian sanctuaries of Lourdes this year that humble prayer to Mary was a true path to Christ.

The pope said Mary had appeared at Lourdes to invite everyone who suffers, physically or spiritually, to "raise their eyes toward the cross of Jesus" and recognize a love that is stronger than death or sin.

In his sermon, the pope placed himself among the pilgrim population, saying he, too, had come to pray at the feet of Mary, "eager to learn from her alongside little Bernadette".

Bernadette Soubirous was the 14-year-old peasant girl who had 18 apparitions of Our Lady over a six month period in 1858. He noted that Mary's first gesture to St Bernadette was to make the sign of the cross - an initiation into the mysteries of faith in Christ.

In his message on the celebration of the 150th anniversary of the proclamation of the Dogma of the Immaculate Conception, His Grace (Archbishop Nicholas Chia) had said that it was through Mary Our Blessed Mother that Christ, the Word of God came into this world.

Through her humble submission to the will of God, Jesus became incarnate in her womb and was born in Bethlehem. Of all creatures she was closest to Him.

Through her, St Elizabeth and St John the Baptist encountered the Lord. At the Wedding Feast in Cana she introduced the stewards to the Lord: "Do whatever He tells you".

Mary's mission is to bring others to Christ and Christ to others. Mary wants to bring us close to Christ, the Word of God.

There are countless justifications as to why we should pray to Mother Mary.

But, in our zeal to look up to her for help; we must not unwittingly send the wrong message to others that we are worshipping her.

Our focus is still on the Lord Jesus.

Our acts of devotion must be seen to be in line with our focus.

Otherwise, we only have ourselves to be blamed if we grant others the opportunity to portray us as worshippers of Mother Mary !

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Friday 12 December 2008

Marina Barrage, Singapore

The barrage is a 350-metre wide dam constructed across the Marina channel in the southern part of Singapore, creating Singapore's 15th reservoir; and the only one in the city area.

Saturday 6 December 2008

Celebration Of The Lourdes Experience In Singapore


The 150th anniversary of Our Blessed Mother's Apparition to St Bernadette at Lourdes in 1858 was celebrated at the Singapore Indoor Stadium on Saturday, 6 December 2008.



"Mary & the Word of God" was the theme chosen for Singapore's 2nd celebration of the "Lourdes Event" as this was in line with the theme that was treated by the Synod of Bishops in Rome from 5th to 26th October this year: "The Word of God in the Life and Mission of the Church".



It was through Mary Our Blessed Mother that Christ, the Word of God came into this world. Through her humble submission to the will of God, Jesus became incarnate in her womb and was born in Bethlehem.



Each year, for the past 150 years, thousands of people of all faiths journey to Lourdes to pray at its Grotto for special favours, such as physical cures; to drink or bathe in its healing waters; seek spiritual solace or simply to imbibe the feeling of peace and love that pervades the atmosphere of this holy place.

However, it is not the place but the faith of the pilgrim which brings about healing. And Lourdes would not have become the well known pilgrimage site today, if not for the extraordinary experience of Bernadette Soubirous.

On 11th February 1858, she had her first encounter with Our Lady which changed her life from obscurity to prominence, for which she had to suffer much. In all, she had 18 apparitions of Our Lady over a six month period.






Thursday 13 November 2008

Milestones Of Blacks In America

1607: English colonists settled in Virginia. Slavery began and spread to all other colonies


1776: Declaration of Independence by American states triggered a reappraisal of slavery and gradual abolition in the north


1860: Census showed four million slaves, most of them in southern states


1861-1865: Civil war between north and south


1865: Slavery abolished by 13th amendment to the US Constitution


1870: 15th amendment guarantees voting rights of black majorities in southern states, but white backlash introduces segregation in public places


1896: Supreme Court endorsed segregation


1909: The National Association for the Advancement of Coloured People (NAACP) to fight for black rights was formed by multiracial activists


1954: Supreme Court declared segregated education illegal


1955: Rosa Parks, secretary of the NAACP in Montgomery, Alabama, refused to give up her bus seat to a white passenger, galvanising the civil rights movement of the 1950s and early 1960s


1963: Reverend Martin Luther King made his "I have a dream" speech, predicting racial integration


1964: Congress passed Civil Rights Act prohibiting segregation


1965: Congress passed Voting Rights Act to protect the black electorate


1968: Martin Luther King assassinated


1987: General Colin Powell became first black National Security Adviser to President


2004: Mr Obama elected to US Senate, becoming the sole black senator and only the third popularly elected since the 1870s


2008: Mr Obama is the first black American to be nominated by a major party for the presidency, and he wins it


Source: thesundaytimes Nov 9, 2008

Friday 10 October 2008

Financial Crises

Financial markets have suffered multiple crises over the past two decades: the 1991 Gulf war, the 1997 Asian financial crisis, the 1998 collapse of Long Term Capital Management, the 2000 bursting of the dotcom bubble, the September 11 terrorist attacks, the 2002 Worldcom scandal, and the first 2007 sub-prime crisis.

In each instance, stock market prices fell and market liquidity declined simultaneously.


On 15th September 2008, Lehman Brothers called staff at its London's Canary Wharf office to a meeting four days before the investment bank filed for bankruptcy.

On 11th September 2008, Lehman Brothers shares tumbled by about 40 per cent as Wall Street questioned whether the 158-year-old American institution would survive because of its failure to sell assets to cover losses from toxic real estate investments.

It soon joined the ranks of mortgage lenders Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae, and started a global avalanche of collapses that included prominent institutions such as Merrill Lynch, AIG, Washington Mutual, NetBank, IndyMac, Bradford and Bingley, and a growing list of smaller regional and local banks.

These were triggered by the sub-prime mortgage crisis that started in 2007.




Much has since been said in the local media about the background, causal factors/forces, imprudence, poor corporate governance, crony capitalism, etc that led to the current financial crisis.

It took some reading before I came across the following explanation that best described the nature of Ledman Brothers' minibond:


......essentially an insurance policy taken out by Lehman Brothers via its own special-purpose vehicle named Minibond to protect its exposure to six prominent banks known as "reference entities".

The money invested by the Singapore and Hong Kong public formed the insurance payout should any of the six have failed over the period in question, and in return for the use of the public's money, Lehman paid the public an attractive annual coupon of 5 per cent which was, in effect, an insurance premium.
The above extract was from a commentary that appeared in The Business Times of October 15, 2008; and republished in My Paper titled, "Time to make sellers beware, not just buyers" on October 16, 2008.

In its conclusion, the commentary had called for the authorities here to have a fundamental rethink of the entire philosophy relating to how markets are regulated and to not only make buyers aware of the risks, but also sellers.

The correspondent had argued that if caveat emptor is to be reasonably used as a defence (or a criticism of the retail-investing public for not reading or understanding the offer documents), then the cover of the prospectus should have had a description of the exact nature of the product as an insurance policy, the fact that Minibond was Lehman, the financial standing of Lehman, Lehman's reasons for needing the insurance, and that the risk of loss was not limited to one of six banks failing, but seven.

As that was not the case, there must surely be grounds for claims that disclosure was poor, possibly even misleading and that a defence of caveat emptor is not good enough.

All seems clear from hindsight, but I just wonder if the disclosures (if available) would make any difference to those investors' decision when they were caught up in a euphoria of sort.

Others have said that even if Lehman's role as the central player behind Minibond was highlighted, investors would still have bought the product as nobody at the time could have foreseen the coming financial meltdown.

British Prime Minister Gordon Brown, writing in the Washington Post, had said that old post-war international financial institutions are out of date. We are in this together.

There are no Britain-only or Europe-only or America-only solutions to today's problems. We are all in this together, and we can only resolve this crisis together.

Over the past week, we have shown that with political will it is possible to agree on a global multibillion-dollar package to recapitalise our banks across many continents.

In the next few weeks, we need to show the same resolve and spirit of cooperation to create the rules for our new global economy.


French President Nicolas Sarkozy called for change in the global financial system before crisis talks with US counterpart George W. Bush outside Washington on October 18, 2008 amid more gloomy economic news.

The German Parliament has overwhelmingly approved a 500 billion euro (S$988 billion) bank rescue package that Chancellor Angela Merkel hopes will restore confidence in a shaken financial system. The package aimed to restore liquidity to the banking system that is essential for the proper functioning of the economy.

"This is the crisis of my lifetime. I haven't seen anything like it and I won't see anything like it again. Financial regulators have been consistently behind the curve."--- Mr George Soros, outspoken billionaire investor, criticising US and European officials for taking too long to effectively address the financial crisis.

Back in Singapore, Year 2006 was a boom-time. People were cash-rich from the feverish en-bloc property market and a shining economy, banks were rolling out an array of financial products targeted at the man-in-the-street investors, and wealth managers were popping champagne.

No one would have dreamt that two years on, one of America's largest investment banks would go bust and its bankruptcy would affect the livelihood of 10,000 people here who had invested more than S$500 million in Lehman Brothers-linked products.

The DBS High Notes 5 alone, to be held for 5-and-a-half years, were sold to more than 1,400 retail investors in Singapore for a total of S$103 million. Structured products like High Notes 5 and Lehman-issued Minibonds have been gaining popularity in the last seven or eight years and were snatched up like hot cakes by investors in Singapore.

In Hong Kong, people were snapping up structured products, which they thought to be low-risk and linked to stocks and bonds, as early as 2002.

The Hong Kong market became so saturated - at its peak, six products were rolled out each month - that banks started turning their attention to Singapore and Taiwan. Singapore, with some US$118 billion (S$175 billion) sitting in bank deposits in 2004, was ripe for the picking by structured product providers.

The reference entities trotted out were also highly rated players: century-old brand-name institutions like Lehman Brothers. In fact, Lehman's Minibonds in Hong Kong and Singapore were named Best Credit Structured Deal last year by a Hong Kong-based financial magazine, The Asset.

Ironically, its treasury editor, Mr Rodney Diola, told The Sunday Times it used a scoring system based on such criteria as the product's relevance to investors and the capital market; the degree of transparency, simplicity and elegance, innovation and timeliness that characterised the product; and past performance.

Nearly 10 Minibonds were offered in Singapore, of which the values of Series 5 and 6 have been determined to be zero.

MAS chairman Goh Chok Tong advised that we should look at the losses in perspective.

"The global financial crisis came without warning, like a tsunami. Banks have collapsed. Stock prices have plunged. Millions of people in the world, not just in Singapore, have lost money. So we must be realistic in our expectation of recovering all our losses."

"In these difficult times, I think one has to have a sense of perspective......This is not the end of the world. This is not the end of the US as an investment market....." - Dr Tony Tan, deputy chairman of the Government of Singapore Investment Corporation, at the annual meeting of the Institute of International Finance in Washington.

"Leverage is the only way a smart guy can go broke ...... You do smart things, you eventually get very rich. If you do smart things and use leverage and you do one thing wrong along the way, it could wipe you out, because anything times zero is zero."- Mr Warren Buffett, Wall Street wizard, on the problem with debt.

"Markets are wonderful things: They oscillate between greed and fear. As soon as the fear abates, you'll see greed take over." - Mr Thomas Friedman, New York Times columnist and best-selling author.
- edited excerpt of a speech by Mr Ho Kwon Ping at the Singapore Venture Capital Association Gala Dinner on Sept 30, published by Today on October 3, 2008.
Most commentaries on the source of the current crisis dwell on regulatory failures or excessive risk-taking, but they all fail to situate the analysis within a human context.

And people, as any behavioural psychologist will certify, respond strongly to incentives.

Many critics have correctly focused on the perverse pay structure of Wall Street - a highly skewed risk-reward system gone awry - as the root cause of today's problems.

Successive financial crises have proven one consistent point - regulation by itself cannot prevent excessive speculation or collusive behaviour.

Greed fuels any speculative boom and aggravates a bust, but it can only be reined in, not by regulation alone, but by a moral framework, the value system of the entire society, within which business is practised.



Friday 26 September 2008

Investing Carefully

Finance correspondent, Lorna Tan of The Straits Times has this parting message, "No One Has Your Interests At Heart Except Yourself" in her write-up of September 26 on the hundreds of investors who have bought structured products linked to failed US investment bank Lehman Brothers; and are now crying foul.



Many claimed that the products were sold as "safe" and some say they were given the wrong impression that their principal sums were guaranteed.



There is certainly some truth in what Lorna has to advise readers, although I prefer to qualify her parting message with some kind adjunct to placate those financial consultants who have been and/or still conducting themselves professionally and ethically.

But, many of these professionals could not stay long in their financial consulting careers as they have ever increasing targets to accomplish.

Faced with a widening gap between the given target and actual performance, it is never easy for any consultant to lay bare all the facts and figures at hand for the client to decide on taking up the investment.

The more the client comes to know about the caveat emptor that he/she has to be exposed to in taking up the investment, the higher the tendency for the client to hold back the decision.

The consultant is primarily employed by the financial institution to sell its products. The consultant is not there to give out free and independent advice to potential client who walks into the premises, even though the institution may profess to provide such a free service.

Too much advice without closing sufficient sales would definitely not reflect well on the consultant. Very soon, the superior would be breathing down the consultant's neck all the time.

For new launches, the consultants are often not adequately trained and enlightened to advise the clients adequately and confidently.

In attempting to close the sales opportunities (especially, if the clients have big sums to invest somewhere), some consultants might find it hard not to act unjustly and unethically.

Even if a client has all the information and clarifications to make an informed decision, it is not uncommon for the client to seek the consultant's personal advice on the risks involved.

Well, it is unthinkable for an average consultant over here to be able to advise that a 158-year-old prestigious establishment could crumble overnight.

The reliability of the 'AAA' rating which used to be a benchmark for any aspiring financial institution has also taken on a new understanding in the current financial tsunami.  For the consultant to advise that it is 'safe' to proceed with the investment is not surprising after all.

Perhaps, the adage that one should not place all his eggs in one basket is still relevant. Likewise, do not act in haste. If there is doubt, it is always advisable to bounce all that you have learned from one consultant or institution against another independent source of advice until you are adequately confident of what you are getting into.

Note: This posting was published on ST Online Forum on 30 September 2008, titled "Investing Carefully: Perhaps, the adage that one should not put all one's eggs in one basket is still relevant".

Wednesday 24 September 2008

'Confucius Help Me Score As'



This was one of the many photographs that I uploaded in my earlier posting, "Old House, Old Tales @ Lorong Tai Seng".


I am doing a separate posting for Confucius here as it will be his birthday on Friday, 26 September 2008 (ie 27th day of the 8th lunar month).


Many students and parents have flocked to temples over the last weekend to make offerings to the Chinese thinker-philosopher.




It was done not so much for paying respect to the 'deity', but rather more for want of scoring good grades in the current examination period in schools.

He is believed to be the more relevant 'deity' for bestowing mental acuity on those who prayed to him for blessings. Luck in examination performance ? I am not sure ! If it makes you feel GOOD psychologically............ Why Not ? After all, having the right frame of mind is already half the battle won in scoring well in any test of strength(s).

Confucius, born more than 25 centuries ago in China, is credited with promoting values such as respect for elders and reciprocity.

Some temples have his statue placed among the pantheon of deities, but Confucianism is more often thought of as a way of life than as a religion.

Taoists respect Confucius as a great sage and a contemporary of the Taoist guru, Lao Zi. His teachings have since been studied worldwide and translated into many languages.


I wonder how many parents prayed to him for guidance and blessings for their children to be imbued with the desired values and ethic !

Wednesday 10 September 2008

Our Lady's Procession 2008

"Jesus Christ Our Hope" that's the theme for this year's celebration at Church of St. Alphonsus (Novena Church) of Singapore.









Monday 8 September 2008

Mid-Autumn Festival 中秋节




































This year's festival falls on Sunday, 14 September 2008. The decorations and festivities are in full swing since Sunday, 31 August 2008.

This year's theme, Mid-Autumn Festival By The River, is best appreciated if you were to take a trip down the Singapore river during the weekends when chinese dances, calligraphy, puppet-making demonstrations, tai-chi performances, etc are in full swing.


At the constituency level, ministers, members of parliaments and other community leaders participated in various activities such as lantern-making competition, mooncakes sampling, chinese tea-drinking session, etc.


Ever since US astronaut, Neil Armstrong walked on the moon in 1968, some believers have stopped their practice of making offerings (mooncakes notwithstanding) and praying to the moon.

They are disillusioned with the mythology of observing this practice. The different legends that have been passed on from generation to generation are not congruent with what the historical moon-walking feat had uncovered on television.

Despite this, mooncakes (the so-called cantonese varieties, in particular) continue to be offered as gifts (more creative fillings such as strawberry, green tea flavour, etc have crept into mooncake-making) to business associates, clients, close relatives, and other loved ones during the festival. 









The below teochew and hokkien versions of mooncakes have more flaky pastries, and are less impressive.









Paper lanterns which used to be popular with children in the 1960s/1970s are not in the vogue nowadays in Singapore.   



Teochew-style pastries from China see dwindling sales over the years.


They are sought after by the older generations of customers, and those who have caught up with the taste.






Traditional piglet-shaped pastry packed in attractive cages to entice children into buying them as collection items.

Incidentally, the cages are replicas of rattan cages that were used to transport pigs in the old days of Singapore.









Pomelos used to be a mandatory item for the altar, and they continued to be sold in abundance at this time of the year as many consumers have grown accustomed to the fruit over the years.


Creativity has crept into the making of the pastries and ingredients of the traditional mooncakes over the years.   The traditional pastries and recipes are still popular, but more appealing and attractive recipes using ingredients such as durian ( a popular fruit with Singaporeans ), red dates, strawberry, yam, green tea, and chocolates.





















Wednesday 20 August 2008

Gender Discrimination ?

A male forum writer (ST August 20) had responded to Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong's National Day Rally speech on the baby shortage issue:


"In suggesting that men should assist their wives with child-rearing duties and household chores, PM Lee said: 'In the old days, the man was the master of the household. That era has gone.

The modern woman expects equality.' I agree totally. This also means that the laws regarding marriage and family should keep in step with the changing trend. These laws were written in a different era and assumed that men were the providers and protectors, and women, the powerless party.

The present laws discriminate against men, in matters relating to divorce, assets, inheritance and who gets to care for the children when a marriage fails.

I doubt rational thinking men would be keen to get into such an arrangement where the odds are stacked against them. Update the marriage and family laws and make it as fair for the men and children if we wish to increase marriages and birth rates."


Sounds all too familiar ? It certainly does for me. Let us look out for more views from others.


Tuesday 12 August 2008

Does 08/08/08 Augur Well For Everyone ?

Someone commented that in Chinese tradition, eight (8) is a lucky number. I wonder!

I remember Taoists have high regard for the basic digits, 3 and 9. Besides, what is good is relative to one's divine make-up such as date of birth, time of birth and year of birth.



He added that in Mandarin, the number sounds like "prosper". Yes, I am aware of it. But, I remember hearing from a friend of mine that many premium cars bearing number plates with the digit 8, in whatever permutation, were towed away on bank loan default during bad times!

Mine had the nice sounding permutation, 3883; but I did not proper just as great. I tendered a high rental for my shop space at Plaza 888 along with several others who probably believed in it, but where are most of us now ?



According to a spokesman from the Registry of Marriages, 308 ceremonies were performed yesterday, 08/08/08; a significant dip from the 772 ceremonies held last July 7 - 07/07/07.

Many believe fewer couples are tying the knot this year as it is currently the Hungry Ghosts month, a time thought to be inauspicious for everything from marriage to buying a house.




Nice to behold, But once bitten Twice shy!

Monday 11 August 2008

Men Must Get It ?

Thesundaytimes ran an editorial on its "Think" section of August 10, 2008; titled "Men must get it":
Working mothers want more help from their husbands in parenting. This is on the top of their wish list, in a survey conducted by a women's support group. The call is not new. It is an issue raised regularly at forums and in surveys, including one carried out by the Government last year.
A mindset change among the men is called for, but it is not going to be easy. In traditional societies, men went out to work and women stayed home to raise children and do the housework. In Singapore, women entered the workforce in large numbers only in the past four decades. The traditional way of life has been ingrained, and up till today, many working women are still expected to tend to the children and do household chores on top of their day's work.
Having a maid helps ease the load, but not all couples can afford to hire one. Getting retired grandparents to help look after the children is another way out, but again, not all couples have this luxury. In instances where a woman lives with her elderly in-laws, she often ends up looking after them as well. Her husband expects her to take time off from work to take them to the clinic or hospital when they fall ill. It is not that the husband's job is more important. Sometimes, it is the wife who earns more. But it does not occur to the man of the house to show he cares.
In getting the husbands to help out in parenting duties, the chairman of the support group pointed out that it was no longer "a question of awareness or mindset, but of immediate behavioural and lifestyle changes". For a start, husbands should do the dishes and iron the clothes, at the least, and help the children with their homework. The children will learn from the adults" example, and they will grow up to see parenting as a joint responsibility.
Seeing RED over this poser ? Perhaps, it is time that men speak out; and be heard LOUD and CLEAR about their side of the situation.

Sunday 10 August 2008

Changing Mindset On Religion

According to a write-up by New York Times, which was published by The Straits Times titled "Buddhism may be dying out in Japan" on 15 July, 2008; the Japanese have long taken an easy-going, buffet-like approach to religion, ringing out the old year at Buddhist temples and welcoming the new year, several hours later, at Shinto shrines.


Weddings hew to Shinto rituals or, just as easily, to Christian ones.


When it comes to funerals, though, the Japanese have traditionally been inflexibly Buddhist - so much so that Buddhism in Japan is often called "funeral Buddhism".

A reference to the religion's former near-monopoly on the elaborate and lucrative ceremonies surrounding deaths and memorial services. The religion appeared to cater more to the needs of the dead than to those of the living.

"That's the image of funeral Buddhism: that it doesn't meet people's spiritual needs," said Mr Ryoko Mori, the chief priest at the 700-year-old Zuikoji Temple in northern Japan. In Japan nowadays, very few Buddhist priests meet the people's spiritual needs.

While interest in Buddhism is declining in urban areas, the religion's rural strongholds are being depopulated, with older adherents dying and birth rates remaining low.

More significantly, Buddhism is losing its grip on the funeral industry, as more and more Japanese are turning to funeral homes or choosing not to hold funerals at all. In 2007, 28 per cent held funerals at home or in temples, and 61 per cent opted for funeral homes.

An increasing number of Japanese are deciding to have their loved ones cremated without any funeral at all, said anthropologist Noriyuki Ueda from the Tokyo Institute of Technology, an expert on Buddhism. "Because of that, Buddhist priests and temples will no longer be involved in funerals."



According to a write-up by Arti Mulchand of The Straits Times on 9 August 2008, Chinese religions in Singapore, specifically Taoism, have been trying to stem the conversion of their believers to Christianity.

Seven in 10 here considered themselves Taoist nearly 90 years ago, but recent census figures have charted their declining "share" - from 30 per cent of the population in 1980 to 22.4 per cent in 1990 and 8.5 per cent in 2000.

Christianity, on the other hand, has grown its flock to 14.6 per cent of the people here in 2000, up from just 5.2 per cent in the 1920s to 10.1 per cent in 1980 and 12.7 per cent in 1990.

With most of the other religions holding steady, this is where the migration seems to have been.

According to a ST survey, which polled 1,000 people aged above 15 and representative of the population, found that 20 per cent of adults here abandon the religion they were born into before age 30.

Back in 1990, these "switchers" made up only 11.5 per cent. The drift is leaving Taoism, for one, with relatively older followers. Six in 10 Taoists, for example, are above 40. One in four who grew up in Taoist homes says he has left the faith. Three-quarters of the transfers were made by those under 24, who said they felt "disconnected" to the religion or perceived a "lack of meaning' in following it.

When the issue of "deserters" from Taoism came to light in 1988, Taoist leaders went into a huddle, and from that came the Taoist Federation in 1990.

In contrast, Buddhism is holding strong. Over 80 per cent who were born Buddhist are staying Buddhist. And it was the fastest growing religion between 1990 and 2000, growing to 43 per cent of the population in that decade.

Buddhists are seeing a revival in their faith - a revival also being played out in South Korea, which is similarly mult-religious and Asian.


There, Buddhism is also mounting a fight for believers amid a dramatic surge in Christianity. Christians form close to 30 per cent of the population there, and Buddhists, 22.8 per cent.


In Singapore, where Christianity is not native, half the faithful are converts, that is not born into the religion. Christianity has grown here amid an evolving social context: The population has become more educated. English has also grown in use, and brought with it a Western world view and culture.

Language appears to be the biggest factor accounting for Christianity's expansion here, said Associate Professor Phyllis Chew, a linguist at the National Institute of Education.

National University of Singapore sociologist Alexius Pereira confirmed it. He added that over the last 40 years, Christianity has drawn the educated, English-speaking Chinese whose parents followed traditional religions.

The charismatic movement, with the attendant rise of the "mega-churches", those with members numbering in the tens of thousands, was a factor in the growth of Christianity.


Conversion to Islam does happen, most often because of mixed marriages, but conversion to Hinduism is "downright impossible", says the Hindu Endowments Board on its website.

It is a faith one is born into, though there are a minority who choose to take on and practise the tenets of Hinduism.

The ST survey found that Islam kept 99 per cent of its followers; among Hindus, just 7 per cent switched faiths.


The survey also found that three in 10 of the free-thinkers, those who see no need to answer to a higher power, used to have a childhood religion; but dropped it, mainly before age 24. The remaining seven have no plans to take on a religion.


"Four in five young people here believe in religion"
This report by Clarissa Oon of The Straits Times appeared on September 3, 2008; but I have decided to insert it here because it was based on a survey done in 2004 by sociolinguist, Dr Phyllis Chew.

Four in five young people believe in some sort of deity, according to the poll of more than 2,700 students by Dr Chew. Her study, believed to be the first of its kind here among youth aged 13 to 18, is published in a new book on religious diversity in Singapore by the Institute of Policy Studies and launched yesterday.

Most of the students - who come from a mix of neighbourhood and government-aided schools - belong to one of the three religions, ie Buddhism, Christianity and Islam.

However, when asked to write all they know of the nine main religions in the country, the students could only give mainly superficial comments.

Examples: "It is associated with monks" for Buddhism, "they go to church and sing hymns" for Christians and "cannot eat pork" for Muslims.

Students who gave specific details on their own faith could make only general remarks or had nothing to say about other religions, showing ignorance or disinterest in religions besides their own.


Dr Chew wrote that the religious views of the young matter because "their behaviour and beliefs affect the political, economic and social future of a nation".

On the whole, Singapore adolescents are remarkably tolerant, she added, even if they interpret "tolerance" as "not talking about religion" with their friends and hence avoiding possible conflicts.

The importance of adopting such an attitude was stressed by about three-quarters of those surveyed.


Just one in three polled considers himself or herself a Buddhist compared to 42.5 per cent in the 2000 census.

Correspondingly, Christians make up one in five of those surveyed, against 14.6 per cent in the census.

The proportion of Muslims, however, has stayed constant, registering 15 per cent in both the survey and the census.


While only a small minority (5.7 per cent) of students had switched to a different religion from their parents, most conversions were from Buddhism or Taoism to Christianity.

Saturday 9 August 2008

Singapore National Day Parade 2008

Friday 8 August 2008

2008 Beijing Olympics Opening/Closing Ceremonies

The 29th Olympic Games were declared open by President Hu Jintao in a dazzling spectacle, showcasing both the richness of Chinese culture, and the elaborate lengths the host has gone through to stage the planet's biggest sporting extravaganza on 08.08.08 at precisely 8.00 pm. Almost S$60 billion - treble the budget of the 2004 Athens Olympics - has been pumped into the Beijing Games.

A record 204 nations and territories, and 10,500 athletes would be competing over the next 16 days. Packed into the new "Bird's Nest" National Stadium were some 91,000 spectators enthralled by the 3-and-a-half hours of multimedia feast choreographed by acclaimed Chinese filmmaker, Zhang Yimou.

China's evolution from the Xia Dynasty to the present day was told in a magical visual show featuring taiji exponents, Chinese opera singers and 56 children representing the 56 Chinese ethnic groups.

It was a spectacular show incorporating everything from acrobats to Chinese calligraphy to terracotta soldiers - and almost every aspect of China's 5,000-year history.

However, the closing ceremony paled in comparison. Let us look forward to 2012 when London hosts the next Olympics.

Thursday 7 August 2008

'Hungry Ghosts' Festival


Around this time of the lunar calendar, some chinese believers would gather together to set up temporary praying altars to welcome the souls of the dead. The gates of Hades are believed to be flung open for the souls to roam freely during the seventh month of the lunar calendar; and, for this year, it falls on 1st August 2008 through 30 August 2008.

The believers offer daily prayers with joss-sticks and candles. Coffee, tea, alcohols, soft-drinks and food are offered daily to appease the 'hungry ghosts'.

Unlike other lunar months, the first, middle (15th) and last day of the 7th lunar month are observed with greater widespread offerings, and burning of incense, joss papers, paper replicas of clothes, shoes, houses, and other materialistic essentials.   As is the usual practice of Taoists and Buddhists, the first and 15th day of lunar month are considered auspicious days for observance and prayers.   The last day of the 7th lunar month is special as it is the day of bidding farewell to the wandering souls, and spirits of ancestors, and/or loved ones who have to make their way back to their respective realms.   It is a month of widespread dining, entertainment, continual prayers and offerings as different communal groups pick (some in consultation with the spirits) their own dates to observe the festival with pomp and grandiose dedication within their own localities.   Some groups engage monks or Taoist priests to perform special rituals for the healing and salvation of the wandering souls.











Electrical appliances, toys, liquors, figurines, elaborately-decorated charcoals, etc are auctioned off for raising funds for the ensuing year's festival celebration, and charitable organisation(s) chosen by the organising committee in consultation with fellow members.

Successful bidders need only to pay up before the following year's celebration. Charcoals are hot items because of the superstitious belief attached to such stuff, and the bidding can go into thousands of dollar(S$).   Members outbid each other to clinch their favourite items with the belief that the items would bring good fortune.


Many temples too organise mass celebrations for their devotees to make offerings to their ancestors and spirits of loved ones in the temples' compound, and for the temples' monks or Taoist priests to conduct prayers for the souls.

Devotees need to contribute a monthly or one-time payment for the occasion.





Getais ( stage-show ), puppet shows, wayangs ( traditional chinese operas ) and 10-course chinese dinners are organised as part of the celebrations when budget allows.

This festival is not unique to Singapore.   Chinese in countries like Taiwan, Hongkong, Indonesia and Malaysia do observe the festival in their own customary practices and beliefs.

Above snapshots show the elaborate celebration in Puli, Taiwan.   More information and pictures are available from Chinese Temples in Singapore.